What’s the greatest lesson you think life has taught you this far?

That it is never too late to try again.

Since our focus this year is raising awareness on mental health, disorders and suicide, tell us about a time when you experienced any of these personally or through a family member or friend.

I had experienced suicide first hand when at least two very close family members lost their battle against addiction and/or depression. I myself have dealt with severe clinical depression from age 14 on. I overcame self harm and an eating disorder. Actually, I have dealt with many challenging curcumstances. I was once held against my will by the so called "good guy" at work in L.A. he was giving me a ride home from a work Christmas party when my car was in the shop, yet again. He sped past my apartment, speeding recklessly on the freeway to take me (against my very clear protests) to his "special place"... long story for another time, but had I not jumped from that car..... scares me to even think about. I wrote about this and won an award for best short story, non-fiction. Turning horrible experiences into something to help others has always kept me going. I need purpose. 

Tell us about a time when you had to fight you’re hardest.

My close family member's suicide at a young age shook me to my very core and I fight that sorrow still! I just know he would not want me to give up, especially as it relates to him. I accept the fact that I will never stop missing him, but I have much to do. It no longer cripples me. Keeping busy and helping others is my reason. Also fortunate that great people like my friends Dave and Tina, had stuck by me. Also, meeting Bobby was a big change for the positive, a man who refused to give up on me when I had nearly given up on myself. He helped shine light into the darkness. This all has had a tremendously positive effect in renewing my belief in people as ultimately good! Good people definitely exist.

What is the one piece of advice would you give to someone fighting to make it to the next day?

The depression or illness is lying to you! You are worthy, people most certainly do need and love you. Trust others at that moment to tell you what is real because depression is a cunning and devious foe. Hang on because I promise you, it can and will get better! It will pass. It feels like this is forever, but it is not. You have too much to offer to quit now.

And finally... If you could speak out about something, what would it be?

Stop bullying, de-stigmatizing mental illness, suicide prevention, no shame if a survivor of abuse and animal kindness. I have a lot of work ahead of me!